One of the ways to move on after a bad outcome is not to dwell on whatever it is that you need to move on from. It is normal to think about what went wrong, what you should have done differently, even the advices you ignored which if you had implemented would have yielded a […]

Some people find it difficult to comply with laid down rules or what people consider as the norm. These group of people are not afraid to be different, they do their own things, break existing rules, sometimes they get away with certain behaviours and still manage to integrate well with the society. We are all

It is not easy to live by other people’s dictate. Find out the true meaning of life and form your own rules based on what you know is right. Imagine forming an opinion because of what so and so person said, what then happens when someone you respect holds a contrary view, does it now

Change is the only constant thing in life. There are times these changes happen so fast that we are almost unable to keep up with them. It can be overwhelming; it can also be daunting. To adjust fast, try to embrace these changes when they happen, it is part of the growth process we must

Life is always giving us several opportunities to do better. By ”doing better” I mean opportunities to take on new ideas and execute them, correct mistakes, plan, re plan, get opinions and resolve whether to continue an action or simply abort that activity or project. We know the popular saying that an opportunity lost cannot

Everything in life happens for a reason. This is what we have been told, this word is usually used when consoling people about some unfortunate incident in their lives. But is this true, does everything really happen for a reason? I do not believe that everything happens for a reason; failure to plan or taking

Enough has been said of people who are high achievers. Included in the many things said of these people is the fact that they are tenacious people. It does not mean that they do not feel the urge to quit, it only means that this set of people have developed a resistance to quitting before

How do you move on from a hurtful past? How do you pattern your life so your daily actions are not a response to the difficult past you had? How do you live normal again after being exposed to a lot of abnormalities growing up? This questions though rhetorical have just one simple answer which

 Try not to imagine the worst of any situation. What it does is to keep you worrying, will the worst happen? It may or may not happen. Can you do anything to stop such from happening, if yes, then do it, if no, then why waste your mental energy worrying about a situation you can’t

Everyone has had a point in their life, where they have had regrets about an action already taken. It may not be something very serious, but at least something you looked back and wished you had done a bit more differently. We all do have these moments, that is what makes us human. How have