Celebrate your victories while waiting for new ones to happen. Be grateful for the opportunities you had and converted, which made you record your successes. Remember that though you have victories that may not look so great to you now, some people would die for the opportunity to have that victory. Be grateful and recognize […]
Have you ever met a fault finder? How did you feel when you left that person’s company? I guess you felt drained. It is very easy to find fault in other people but not easy to find one in our own lives. Before you castigate another person, be sure you are good, you also need
Being thankful for what we have opens us up to opportunities to have more. You may not understand the blessing of having someone or your loved ones check up on you regularly until you meet someone who does not have such relationships. Sometimes, it may feel like these persons are prying when they try to
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Cheer up! I think you need to hear this. You have done well for yourself. You have been hardworking, attending diligently to your duties, and doing exactly what you should do. So, don’t beat yourself over what didn’t work out or what went wrong. Sometimes you can do everything perfectly but the results won’t come
We all are a product of nature and nurture. By nurture I mean our upbringing, the associations and the people we interacted with while growing up, and the relationships and associations we currently keep. It is difficult to see an adult who grew up in a loving home where corrections were made with love and
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It is important to separate yourself once in a while; it is important to do so because there are subjects or matters of importance to you that you may need that “alone” time to reflect on and resolve. I believe that we are able to give more to whatever undertaking we are into, when our
Doing the impossible requires a staying power. It is also called resilience, the ability to think radically and go for what you want irrespective of the difficulties attendant on going that route. Doing the impossible may also mean not having a precedence to follow or following a road less taken. Are you ready for certain
Starting afresh requires a great deal of resilience. It may involve looking back and in some cases abandoning works/projects you have already started which you may have expended a lot of resources (time, money, energies etc.) on, but that is why it is called new beginnings. You need to begin anew if you realize that