It is believed that people get wiser with age. This is because it is often taken that individuals learn a whole lot from life experiences. I wouldn’t expect a 5-year-old to know much about heart break, loss and all sorts, the likelihood of experiencing these emotions increases as we grow older. We cannot expressly guard […]

It is a new week. I guess many people already planned how they intend this week to go. Even if it is not a clear defined plan, at least they have an idea of what they intend to do for the week. Whilst this is a good way to start your week, it is still

Stay on your lane! This might be a not-so common way to start a write-up, but it is intended for the effect. People tend to interfere too much with what is not their business. I do not mean that good checking up on a loved one to enquire about their welfare, I mean the malicious

The world always celebrates success. Nobody really cares when you are in the process of building that path. The failures, the disappointments, the attempt to give up all becomes worthy of mention when you eventually attain the success you desire. Knowing this, try as much as possible to continue to push on, if you would

As humans we do have that tendency to shy away from things that may bring us pain, we would rather go to the spa, have a good time with friends than indulge in any activity that may bring us either physical or emotional pain. No matter how we look at it some pains are necessary

Whenever you are trying to stop an old habit, its best to avoid people who are still indulging in the conduct you are trying to quit. It is much better to take yourself out of that kind of environment for some time until you are sure you can no longer be affected by being in

It is not enough to seek permission from someone i.e. superior authority before taking any action, ensure that you get the approval you seek. This is especially necessary if you work in hierarchical organization that requires the stamp of approval of a senior officer before certain actions are taken. What some people do is that

Any plan that has any chance of success must be well thought out. By thought out, I mean well researched, necessary questions asked, answers received, or where no answers, alternative arrangements made to balance out the grey areas. All this process must be undertaken if you want your plans to succeed. Success is a question

  The day you discover that an information which you had relied on, worked with and believed to be true for a long period in your life is false is the same day you should plan to work out something with your newly found information. First of all, it is important not to berate yourself

 How do you make amends when you’ve inadvertently wronged someone? Is it okay to just apologize? Are there occasions where a mere apology is insufficient? No, I do not have straight answers to these questions, I will only attempt to state what I may do if I ever find myself in any of these situations.