It is true that nobody owes you anything, it is also true that you owe nobody anything; despite this popular saying I still think we owe the people around us the truth at all times. The truth may not be the easy way out, yet it still remains the best way out. State the fact […]
Write down your thoughts, put them down in a permanent form, you can do voice recordings, short videos etc, the goal is to put them down in a form that you can easily call up to remind you of the thoughts or ideas you had at particular point in time. Human beings are not computers,
Stop giving people excuses when you have made a decision to do or refrain from doing certain activities. You should be proud of your stand no matter how unconventional it may seem to be people. When you give excuses or over-explain the reasons you took the stand you took, you will come across to people
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It is very normal to feel disappointed by a betrayal, an unreciprocated gesture or just not getting what you have worked for. These disappointments though valid should only be a temporary emotion. When you allow this emotion to fester, it will degenerate to a situation where you may have to look for external help to
Imagine how beautiful this world would be if everyone made it a priority to engage only things that truly matters. Someone comes with a bad energy, you ignore it because you would rather do things that would give you happiness than absorb negative auras. This may sound almost impossible especially in our modern world where
Pause. Have a re-think before you make a major decision. Do not be in a hurry, do not allow yourself to be pressured into taking a decision you are not ready for. I can understand when there are deadlines to be met and all that, but even at that, only make major decisions when you
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I think sanitizing your space is one of the first steps to preventing depression. People do go through a lot, while some have that innate strength to come out of whatever they are going through without external support, some need external support either from family friends, or counsellors to deal with what they are going
Hello, how are you doing today? Hope you are doing great? The afore mentioned seems to be the simplest form of greeting in the society I come from. Though simple and almost cliche, it is still an acceptable way of showing interest in the well-being of the other person. Nobody bothers to find out whether
There are two major seasons in the life of everyone, there is a time for sowing and a time for reaping. Advancing in life and becoming what everyone terms as successful is simply knowing the seasons in your life and doing what you ought to do. For instance, you should be investing in yourself, your
Whenever you feel like giving up after a painful and gruelling experience, remember that some people have gone through the same or even worse situations and still emerged strong. That is not to say that whatever you went through or are currently going through should be downplayed. What I am saying is that you shouldn’t