When in doubt about an action you are about to take, pause and ask questions. Do not go ahead with that action until all your doubts are cleared. This simple precaution is an antidote to most “Had I known” statements. A little precaution, a small pause, a short hesitation may save you from an irreparable […]
Beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder, this is a very correct statement because what constitutes beauty to Mr. A may be totally different from what Mr. B considers beautiful. So it is in every aspect of life. Because humans are wired to be different, our approach to issues, life in general
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Write down your thoughts or whatever you are feeling when you are overwhelmed. Sometimes writing it down helps you put things in proper perspectives. It might help you discover that some of the things you thought actually matter do not matter, this will help you refocus your energies in worthwhile ventures. In planning, you must
Being angry about someone’s conduct against you or someone’s failure to live up to a certain expectation is totally normal. As we relate with people there are bound to be disagreements, emotional outbursts, disappointments and so on, but it is how we manage our emotions at these times that shows our growth and maturity as
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Dedication simply means paying undivided attention to a particular thing, subject or idea that has caught your interest. It also means an undivided loyalty to that subject. No matter the distraction, you are simply too involved with that subject to abandon it half way. Human beings by nature are curious, in other words you want
Trying to get ahead can be quite tasking especially when you are coming from an unfavorable background. That is not to say that such background is an excuse to underperform or relegate yourself to a more disadvantaged position. What this situation means is that you have more hurdles to cross than others with a better
How have you improved your skill set in recent times? It is very easy to keep working and forget about your personal development goals until it is almost late. The workloads, deadlines and work stress will never cease, in fact some of it essentially make us what we are, but we should be able to
Life may not always give you what you want, but you should be able to try as much as possible to work for the type of life you want. You may succeed, you may not, but all the same try so that even if you don’t get to the sky and you can be somewhere
Most people judge things on face value. They do not bother with making investigations before they make their choices. Sometimes the effect of such careless approach may be not seen immediately until much later in the future. Think deeply before you make life changing decisions, do not rush and do not allow yourself to be
We are in the holiday season. By holiday season, I mean summer months where people tend to slow down a bit on work and take some vacation. As much as this sounds like the most usual thing on earth, many people do not go on break. This may be as a result of factors ranging